Waiting to Exhale

Writer Danielle Parla | July 5, 2017


Does it really matter how we breathe, as long as we receive enough oxygen to stay alive? Yes. The breath influences your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being, but the opposite is also true. That is, strong physical, mental, emotional and spiritual challenges significantly limit our ability to breathe fully, freely and joyously.

On a physical level, we obtain 80 per cent of our energy from the breath process. The inhaled breath feeds the cells of the entire body with oxygen and the exhaled breath detoxifies through carbon dioxide. The movement of breath stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system and the vagus nerve creating a relaxation response and balancing the flow of energy throughout the body. Effective breathing improves energy levels, blood and lymphatic circulation, along with conditions such as anxiety, respiratory diseases, headaches and depression.

Breathworkers often report their clients resolve physical illnesses after they began to integrate breathing practices into their lives. Psychologist, author and body-intelligence practitioner Dr Gay Hendricks says, “The human body is designed to discharge 70 per cent of its toxins through breathing. So if your breathing is not operating at peak efficiency, you are not ridding yourself of toxins properly.” Medical research has found links between improper breathing and diseases including hypertension, heart disease and cancer.

On a mental level, conscious breathing optimises the power of mental concentration, learning capacity, observation, productivity and decision-making. Our breath provides focus and clarity to enhance awareness and presence in every moment. Try this simple exercise for yourself: close your eyes and watch your breath. Can you see how your relationship to your thoughts is influenced and how difficult it is to truly watch the coming and going of the breath while thinking at the same time?

On an emotional level, integrated breathwork provides profound inner peace and relaxation, feelings of safety, self-love and acceptance. It also strengthens coping skills and sense of inner power. One of the most intriguing and profound aspects of breathwork is the intelligence with which the breath can access the subconscious mind, leading to quick and permanent resolution of unprocessed past traumas without the need to relive or consciously process the experiences. As the breath opens, higher levels of vibration enable negative energetic patterns and imprints to be cleared and old mental and emotional patterns that no longer serve you to be released. Patterns of resistance, cultural conditioning and self-sabotage are brought into awareness where they can be worked on directly.

On a spiritual level breathwork enhances spiritual connection, meditation practices, intuition and creativity. Awareness expands with the expression of love and joy as the heart opens and trusts the flow of life.


Fundamental to breathwork is the premise that an individual’s breath pattern offers valuable insight and is a compilation of everything that has happened in their life. When we are young and don’t have the ability to physically, emotionally or verbally defend ourselves, we instinctively seek protection using the one thing we can control – our breath. Consider the quality of your breath when you are angry, upset, anxious or concentrated. These energetic contractions only become denser as we move through life’s ups and downs, so that by the time we reach adulthood, our breath is shallow and limited.

When the breath is opened and maintained through practice, the protective patterns that served you in childhood are released and the relationship with your breath transforms. The negative thoughts and mind madness that usually arise when experiencing intense emotion now shift when we realise that full, open breath is constant support, our companion for life.  In short, breathwork gets us out of our heads and into our bodies.

All breathwork therapies are based on the act of breathing. Some methods, like Transformational Breath, emphasise belly breathing for an extended period of time using a connected, circular breath through an open mouth. While this style of breathing is not to be employed on a daily basis, the opening in the breath guides people to release emotional energy that can keep them stuck.

Our breath is the most immediate source of energy and healing for our physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. Breathwork is simple, safe and can be experienced by everyone regardless of age and health. It offers an invitation to reconnect with yourself, erase limiting patterns and be open to the full, beautiful flow of life. Quite literally, when you change your breath, you change your life.